Articles

Understanding the patterns that shape emotional wellbeing, self-criticism, PMDD, eating difficulties and behaviour change.

Thoughtful essays exploring the ideas that sit at the heart of Cognitive Compassion Therapy.

These are the four articles I usually recommend reading first.

New here and not sure where to begin.

They introduce some of the key ideas that sit underneath much of what I write and the work I do with clients.

1

When Trying To Stay In Control Starts To Backfire

When the strategies used to feel safer start creating new problems.

2

Why Control Feels Safer Than Flexibility

Why certainty can feel protective, even when it comes at a cost

3

Structure vs Control: A Boundary Many People Miss

The difference between supportive structure and rigid control.

4

Why Knowing What To Do Isn’t Always Enough

Understanding the gap between insight and action

Thinking of Therapy.

You don’t have to have it all figured out

Many women who contact me have already spent years reading, researching and trying to understand themselves.

Articles can help us understand patterns.

Therapy provides a space to explore how those patterns operate in your own life and begin building practical, sustainable ways forward.

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Occasional reflections on psychology, behaviour change, PMDD and emotional wellbeing.

No overwhelm. Just thoughtful writing delivered when there's something worth sharing.

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